Our
project starts a little early this time! October is Breast Cancer Awareness
Month. We are looking for NELSON items from you to be
posted on Nelson
Official Ebay! It could be items you have collected, photos, things
made or things you have made. 100% of the profit will got to fighting breast
cancer.
We will be collecting items until the end of July. Throughout August &
September we will be posting your items on ebay!
Not only will
you be helping us raise money for an awesome cause you will earn 1 point
for every dollar your item sells for! And let's not forget when we do these
projects you get 1 pt per dollar spent on postage to get it to us!
Please
send your items to:
The Nelson
Brothers
NST Project
19528 Ventura
Blvd #281
Tarzana, CA
91356
Here is how this project came to be. Long time fan and NST member Laurie
Lagace has recently fought this battle. She is a survivor.
Many of you
know Laurie or of her from shows on the east coast. Or perhaps you know
her from the awesome photos she takes of the guys and shares them with
you via the Nelson's Official Site. Gunnar was very moved by her story
and asked what could we do as a team in her honor and in the honor of others
who have fought this battle. Now is your chance to participate once again
on a team level! We hope you will take time to read Laurie's story below.
Laurie and the company she works for even made the news! We all wish Laurie
the best!
MY STORY by Laurie
Lagace
Cancer... you
think it will never happen to you... but it can.
It was October
of last year when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. My doctor had sent
me for a mammogram because she was always finding some lump or bump she
wanted checked out. It was routine. Typically, I was having a screening
done every 2 years. The results had always been normal. But this time was
different.
Calcium deposits
were present on the mammogram, showing up as small white spots. My doctor
sent me for a biopsy, and cancer was found. It was shocking news since
I am otherwise healthy and strong. I had no pain, and ironically, the lumps
my doctor ordered the mammogram for, turned out to be perfectly normal.
There was no lump where the cancer area was.
I was told
at first that it was small, stage 1 (tumor size up to 2 centimeters). No
problem, I thought, I can handle it. Then I went for an MRI, and the results
showed cancer throughout the entire right breast, coming in contact with
the chest wall muscle. In addition to that, my oncologist thought cancer
may have spread to the lymph nodes inside my chest cavity. A CAT scan and
PET scan also revealed that cancer could possibly be in those nodes. This
was perhaps the scariest time for me because the doctors thought my cancer
was now stage 3 (tumor larger than 5 centimeters) and possibly stage 4,
which means the cancer had spread beyond the breast. It was a rough week
or so, waiting to have those nodes operated on... but thankfully, the biopsy
showed them to be clear of cancer. It was the first good news I'd had.
Chemotherapy
was the next step, 4 months of it. More commonly, chemotherapy is given
after breast surgery to kill any cancer cells that may have escaped to
somewhere else in the body. My case was different. I needed chemo before
my operation, to shrink the tumor away from the chest muscle so that all
of the cancer could be removed. I visited the cancer center every 2 weeks,
sat in a chair for 2-4 hours while they pumped some horrible, but lifesaving,
drugs into my bloodstream. My nurse, Joy, was the highlight of these visits.
She was always cheerful and upbeat and she made me laugh.
I was on a
physical rollercoaster for those 4 months but I could still function. I
never missed a day of work. Emotionally, I was okay. My strategy was, take
it one day at a time. Get through it, get healthy, and move forward. Before
I knew it, the 4 months had passed.
It was time
to prepare for an operation. The chemotherapy shrunk the tumor so effectively
that my doctors thought maybe I could get away with just doing a lumpectomy
(removing the cancer spot only). But there was still one questionable spot
showing on my MRI's. This spot was at the chest wall and couldn't be biopsied
because of its location. It was deep and possibly invading the muscle.
The operation would have to be either a lumpectomy in 2 areas or a mastectomy.
I was advised to go with a mastectomy.
I had no problem
with this idea because initially, prior to chemotherapy, I was told I would
probably need a mastectomy. I had already made peace with it. In fact,
I had decided if I was having one breast removed, then I was having the
other removed as well. They said it was rare for breast cancer to reoccur
in the other breast, but I had talked to at least 3 people who knew someone
that had a mastectomy on one side, then had to go back later on for the
other. I wasn't willing to take that chance. I would always be worried
the cancer would return. And if it did, it would mean going through treatment
all over again. No thank you.
On March 27th,
I had my operation. My surgeon did a great job. Pathology reports showed
the mysterious spot at my chest wall was not cancerous. I was cancer free,
and radiation was not necessary. It was a 10 day recovery from the operation
but I was happy it was over... and to finally know I was cancer free was
a huge relief. I was at the end of that difficult road... it was
my "after the rain".
I'd like to
stress to everyone who reads this the importance of regular mammograms.
I am the type of person who gets a reminder in the mail and sets it aside
because I don't want to be bothered. My primary care physician saved my
life by sending me when she did. If I had waited another year or more,
the outcome could've been much, much worse. Please get yourselves checked
and tell everyone you know to do the same. Remember, for me there was no
lump! Don't wait until you have a lump rather than getting checked on a
regular basis.
As I await
reconstructive surgery, I look back and think, "you know, it wasn't that
bad". I had cancer and I expected the experience to be far worse. But luckily
for me, it was discovered early. My support system was amazing. My family,
friends, co-workers and even acquaintances and people I didn't know extended
their love and concern. I am eternally grateful to all of you. Two days
before my operation, my co-workers arranged "pink shirt day", where every
single employee wore a pink t-shirt with my name on it. It made the news
and I'll never forget it.
The day after
the news clip aired on television, a co-worker told me an elderly couple
approached him in a diner and said, "We saw that news story on TV last
night. We are on our way to church to pray for her." Amazing, indeed.